Starting from pregnancy, we depend on our mother. Unfortunately, in many ways, that is not accessible with substance abuse or other people interfering with our necessities. Fetal alcohol syndrome is not just a notable feature on someone's face. This has a lifelong impct on the child inheriting it, leading to delayed development. To put it blunty, kids are hard to take care of in general. That doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with them, especially after something like this. Different actions taken through your mother's pregnancy or actions ffrom your caretaker creates how you respond to the world.